THAT time of year is upon us &, in addition to everything we normally have to contend with by being childless at Christmas, this year there’s an added layer of uncertainty. As I post this in the 3rd week of November, the UK Government announced that we’ll be out of lockdown in a week, but we don’t know yet what that will look like. I’ve always been a planner; in previous years I’d have a good idea of our schedule, who we’d be spending time with, when & where. Having plans grounded me, gave something to look forward to & time to prepare myself for potential triggers. I recognise that this is a small issue compared to everything else going on in the world & that doesn’t stop the uncertainty creating some worry. But if I’ve learned one thing from this year it’s the importance of living in the moment. Well maybe 2 things, also that when you make plans too far ahead, the Universe is likely to intervene to scupper them (just like your plan to become a mother maybe?). Having said that, one thing is certain: Being childless at Christmas is hard. Although I wonder, is it possible that you might find it a bit easier than last year? And one positive is that there may be fewer trigger events such as office parties or big family get-togethers. Given the uncertainty of life I’d like to: Show you how to create your own pockets of certainty to keep … Read more