18th June 2021 marks 3 years since the publication of my book, Finding Joy Beyond Childlessness so I decided it was time to read it. Yes, I know I wrote it so I’m pretty familiar with the contents, but I hadn’t previously read the paperback from cover to cover. If you follow me on Social Media you’ll also have seen that I’ve been sharing thoughts & quotes & will continue to do so throughout June. Reading was interesting exercise, there were points when I was tempted to wield my editing pencil, but I resisted & reminded myself that I did my best at the time. Big picture thoughts Firstly, I was struck (as always) by the openness, honesty & vulnerability of the brave story tellers who wholeheartedly shared their stories & wisdom so that others could learn from them. A huge thank you to each & every one. I also believe that the chapters & content are about right & achieve the aim I wanted. If I was writing it now I’d add a full chapter on creativity as experience tells me that it has a bigger role to play in healing grief than I realised at the time. I’d also expand on the concept of following your curiosity as a counter to everything we read about needing to have a purpose. I’d like to share 3 key themes with you: 1. Everyone can find joy I’ve said many times, there are as many paths out of the grief of … Read more
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